Only at 27,000 feet did I finally feel the electric bolt of lightning strike through the crown of my head and finally ground deep into the earth. The past week in New York was stormy, for this time of year, and the thunder rumbled and the sky popped without rain or those telltale white hot forks shooting through the sky. I finished a bottle of wine because I’d missed the sunset that night and I couldn’t take more people coming into my space, taking my energy. You don’t realize how much of yourself you put into two neat – mostly – rooms until strangers fill it with their curiosity and their presence and it doesn’t feel like your home anymore.
I packed one suitcase, drunk, on wine from Italy with a pretty label, and also made with expensive Spanish grapes. I ate without tasting because Fear was hungry and, ashamed, I beheld what I’d allowed it to consume. I didn’t stop, didn’t sleep, tried new things on a day when new things should have been left alone, and floated despite being bloated: this wasn’t salt water and the lake was frozen.
And then the airport and the dry, impersonal space about which people complain and forget about the wonder that human beings are whisked up, up and away. His brown eyes were clear as he looked back at me, “thank you, ma’am,” he said. “Only you and one other person thanked me, and that guy bought me a sandwich. He said ‘it’s the least I can do.”
What else could I give but my thanks to the boy with a camouflage backpack and us army-issue jacket? He was off base for four days and his cowboy boots belied his impending departure to somewhere more interesting than the barracks. “I’m getting married in three hours, and then back South,” he said.
“And then what?”
He looked at me seriously, swallowed, and quietly: “I’m getting deployed to Afghanistan.”
I swallowed and looked back into those clear, brown eyes and I knew that he knew we thought the same thing. My heart squeezed. “I’m sorry,” I said, and thanked him again. It was the least that I could do.
We were late and then later and the plane heard about his fiancée who would not be able to meet him, happy, at the airport. He told me he wanted to pick up his 15 years old brother from school. “He’s autistic,” he explained. “But I’m too late now.” We all sat, silent and expectant and finally soared into the air.
Then, at 27,000 feet, the lightning was tamed through a pair of doc marten boots that were grounded into the plane floor that wasn’t earth but it was solid and light at the same time. He was getting married in an hour.
I was going home.
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Life steps in when you least expect it, how you handle it is the measure of your soul. I think you have a wonderful soul. As one who has served and come home without, I can tell you how important your actions were. I am sure of your heart, thank you.
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First, thank you for your service. I am touched beyond words by your comment.
Anyone who can respond in such a fashion has an equally wonderful soul, and I thank you for sharing this and your words and taking the time to read this post.
With my yoga teaching, I am training to work with veterans. Because it’s the least I can do with the skill that I have.
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